feat: upgrade to support SurrealDB v3

[Odonno]

Update SurrealDB integration to support v3:

• hosting container tag updated
• .NET SDK version updated

PR Checklist

• Created a feature/dev branch in your fork (vs. submitting directly from a commit on main)
• Based off latest main branch of toolkit
• PR doesn't include merge commits (always rebase on top of our main, if needed)
• Contains NO breaking changes
• Every new API (including internal ones) has full XML docs
• Code follows all style conventions

Other information

• Projects failed to compile due to vulnerabilities on some OpenTelemetry package versions. Also weird OpenTelemetry versioning, needed to pin latest version available on NuGet.

[github-actions]

🚀 Dogfood this PR with:

⚠️ WARNING: Do not do this without first carefully reviewing the code of this PR to satisfy yourself it is safe.

curl -fsSL https://raw.githubusercontent.com/CommunityToolkit/Aspire/main/eng/scripts/dogfood-pr.sh | bash -s -- 1294

Or

• Run remotely in PowerShell:

iex "& { $(irm https://raw.githubusercontent.com/CommunityToolkit/Aspire/main/eng/scripts/dogfood-pr.ps1) } 1294"