Route Dremel allocations through memory resources

[nirandaperera]

Description

A part of #20780.

• Port Dremel list preprocessing entry points to take cudf::memory_resources.
• Route Dremel device vectors, algorithm scratch, and comparator data through the temporary memory resource.
• Update Parquet writer and row-comparator callers to forward resources explicitly.

Test plan

• Pre-commit checks on all changed files
• LISTS_TEST (1229/1229 passed)

Checklist

• I am familiar with the Contributing Guidelines.
• New or existing tests cover these changes.
• The documentation is up to date with these changes.

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