Improve CI workflows: update runner versions, add timeouts, enhance OpenSSL detection

[slachiewicz]

• Update runners from ubuntu-20.04 to ubuntu-latest, use modern macOS versions
• Add timeout limits to prevent stuck jobs
• Embed OpenSSL path discovery directly in adhoctest.yml
• Update Java test matrix to include Java 25
• Change JDK distribution from temurin to zulu for better compatibility
• Improve macOS OpenSSL detection with unified path logic
• Add Maven cache configuration via setup-java action
• Fix pom.xml test-with-jar profile configuration

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[slachiewicz]

now workflows should not be blocked for 24h waiting for no longer available machine types. Some build still fails mainly due to gaps in openssl path discovery