RATIS-2173. Fix zero-copy bugs for non-gRPC cases.

[szetszwo]

RATIS-2173

This is to fix the following bugs discovered in #1156

5. LogAppenderDefault.sendAppendEntriesWithRetries(..) calls release() incorrectly for exception.

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12. MemoryRaftLog has similar problems as in SegmentedRaftLog.

[szetszwo]

After a few retries, this can pass everything (although there are still zero-copy bugs).

• https://github.com/apache/ratis/actions/runs/11378907332

Let's move ReferenceCountedLeakDetector.enable(..) back to MiniRaftClusterWithGrpc for now in order to easier passing the tests.

• Indeed, the non-gRPC leaks are not real leaks since there are no underlying buffers to release. Just the reference counts are incorrect.
• One kind of bugs may be related to CodeInjectionForTesting -- some tests may inject some code but not cleaning them up correctly.

[szetszwo]

@adoroszlai , in https://github.com/apache/ratis/actions/runs/11389343669/job/31704203350?pr=1167 , there were no test failures but the build failed. Do you know why? I see it serval times.

[adoroszlai]

there were no test failures but the build failed. Do you know why?

Can happen if the test does not complete:

[INFO] BUILD FAILURE
[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
[INFO] Total time:  17:01 min
[INFO] Finished at: 2024-10-17T23:08:41Z
[INFO] ------------------------------------------------------------------------
[ERROR] Failed to execute goal org.apache.maven.plugins:maven-surefire-plugin:3.0.0-M4:test (default-test) on project ratis-test: There was a timeout or other error in the fork -> [Help 1]

https://github.com/apache/ratis/actions/runs/11389343669/job/31704203350?pr=1167#step:5:909

[szetszwo]

[ERROR] Failed to execute goal org.apache.maven.plugins:maven-surefire-plugin:3.0.0-M4:test (default-test) on project ratis-test: There was a timeout or other error in the fork -> [Help 1]

I saw this error but somehow there were no test timeout errors. Not sure why.

[szetszwo]

@adoroszlai , could you review this? I will continue debugging zero-copy after this.

[adoroszlai]

Thanks @szetszwo for the patch, @133tosakarin for the review.

[szetszwo]

@adoroszlai , thanks a lot for reviewing the merging this!