PYTHON-5669 setup-tests.sh should support --active #8654

Job	Run time
Typing Tests (3.11)	1m 3s
DocTest	55s
Link Check	4m 41s
static	3m 9s
Docs Checks	42s
CPython pypy-3.11-ubuntu-latest	12m 24s
CPython 3.13t-ubuntu-latest	6h 0m 15s
CPython 3.10-ubuntu-latest	11m 38s
Typing Tests (3.10)	59s
Integration Tests	48s
Test minimum dependencies and Python	47s
Make an sdist	14s
Install from SDist and Test	52s
	6h 38m 27s

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